Showing posts with label kindness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kindness. Show all posts

Sunday, November 8, 2015

Voting

We are officially one year away from our national election, featuring the race for the 45 presidency.

As the presidential election approaches, let us remember these things:

-Who we are and how we treat people are far more important than our stances on issues and the candidates for whom we vote. Despite differences of opinion, we are all human and should treat our brothers and sisters as such.

-We live in a nation governed by a three-branch government with a defined system of check and balances. To say “the president cut funding for _____” or “the president implemented ______ policy” shows a lack of understanding about how the US works. Please go back to high school and remind yourself not to blame one person when things don’t go quite as you might have hoped. 

-A single-issue voter is one of the worst things to be. This elected official will have limited time to dedicate to your particular cause. Vote for this individual who best embodies the spirit that you believe should be leading our nation’s policies. Furthermore...

-If you are particularly interested in a particular issue, find other ways to make an impact: volunteer your time, get to know those impacted by the issue, make a monetary donation, write letters to local, state, and national policy-makers, or hold discussions. Believe it or not, social media and wearing a particular color are not the only means of raising awareness

-If you don’t vote, you can’t complain about the results. If you do vote, please find better ways to implement your energy and opinions other than complaining and Facebook posts when the results are announced. Feel free to get creative.

-And I'll say it one more time in case you missed it: Who we are and how we treat people are far more important than our stances on issues and the candidates for whom we vote.


                                                                                                                                       


Friday, October 30, 2015

Conversion

Why do we have an obsession with converting others to our way of thinking/feeling/living?

"I lost a lot of weight, so let me reduce your confidence in your body so that you want to lose weight too."
"I'm a Democrat, so anyone who isn't must be a moron."
"My life was changed by my belief in Jesus, so you have to be Christian. Otherwise, you'll go to hell."
"I don't feel sexual attraction to those of the same gender, so homosexuality must be an abomination."
"My childhood was spent in a small town, so cities are dirty, corrupt places."
"I've never been assaulted, so anyone who has been must have been asking for it."

Why can't we just let people be who they are? The most minuscule differences can create rifts between people. Scientifically, we are more similar than dissimilar. We generally have the same number of bones, chromosomes, and vital organs. Our hearts beat at similar rates, our bodies utilize the same metabolic processes, our nerves transmit sensory data in the same manner. We might see the world from different angles, but we live among the same mountains, plains, lakes, and deserts. We each take a different number of breaths, but we all breathe the same air.

If you are acting in a kind, generous manner, I will care about you. I might not agree with you on all issues and I might not affirm all of your behaviors, but I will offer you kindness and generosity. Our differences should not connote rejection or hatred. We all have something to bring to the table; we all have something to learn from every other person we see.